We knew he was coming, anticipated his arrival, and mid-morning lit out on a summer adventure we love to take.
We have a favorite spot we visit, driving all the way around the lake and then hiking a short distance down. Some years we have had to carry little ones, this year the little ones carried the poles. Nice.
He is also loaded with patience. So necessary as all the little-fishers start demanding "Help me", "My turn", "I'm next". Fisherman doesn't mind. He calmly gets each rod ready and casts out the lines. He is so quiet. Like the calm of the water...just his fingers moving...
You see his eyes follow as fisherman points out the line that the boy must watch, the trace of the translucent line on the water, "Look. Just past those green weeds, you see it?"
The boy watches and watches, and then slowly he starts the process himself. He fingers the hooks carefully with the bait, he watches the baited hook dangle as he passes it behind his head and then swiftly casts it out into the water in front of him.
He doesn't make a show of it. He is quiet in his attempts (until he looses the bait 4 or 5 times), but he isn't wanting the attention. He just wants to try.
Fisherman watches from the side, he doesn't say a word. Calm, quiet, patient...
Then, just like that, with a line pulled taut, he is quietly reeling in. We watch, we highly praise his efforts, we beam with delight as he brings in his catch. Splashing, splatting, flailing mountain fresh trout, yes!
Over time, in step, like fisherman, he is helping the little ones. They both call out, "Here, take this one...there you go...reel it in..."
Everyone takes a turn. Everyone gets "me" time, and everyone gets to be "next". They love it.